Thursday, May 24, 2012

RECIPROCATION AND APPRECIATION IN A RELATIONSHIP

RECIPROCATION AND APPRECIATION

Reciprocation is an act of responds to a gesture, it is an optionally compulsory act of gesture in the life of every living thing but more compulsory when it comes to relationships....
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Appreciation in the case of relationship is a way of saying yes, thank you, okay, etc. and can always be expressed in words or action.
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Lovely relationships can never be created, strengthened, or even maintained when the act of reciprocation/appreciation is not considered important and compulsory because it is indeed an activator of relationship in disguise.
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Most act of reciprocation such as hugging, kissing, even presentation of surprise gift item(s) has been able to seal and revive broken relationships for it introduces and represents apology, friendship, interest, support and love.

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Tuesday, May 22, 2012

CONTROL AND IMPORTANCE OF EMOTIONS IN A RELATIONSHIP

CONTROL OF EMOTION

Every relationship that ever exists exists with emotional feelings. These emotional feelings are often used as a marker in a healthy relationship; they include the feeling and concern for understanding, the feeling of friendship and love, the feeling of trust, and the feeling of peace.

It’s always beautiful to have these feelings in a relationship but it poses a great peril for a partner in a relationship to possess this feelings at its peak over the other partner(s), for they are capable of  introducing the feelings of reduced concern and care, the feelings of mistrust, misunderstanding, and disregard, etc.

Note that each of these emotional feelings in disguise outside of a relationship are capable of establishing a healthy relationship with its level increased a bit.

Note also that irregular checking and consideration of your emotional feelings may lead to or cause you a sick relationship.
Ignoring your source of happiness and survival is a self inflected poison.

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Monday, May 21, 2012

UNDERSTANDING WITH FRIENDSHIP


UNDERSTANDING WITH FRIENDSHIP

The word understanding is a prime factor in every relationship that is bound to stand the test of time. Understanding in this case is the act of not just listening but also feeling the pulse of the other person (partner) involved and showing the required support.

In every relationship, there is always the need for the involved partners to know and express this act and one beautiful thing about this is that understanding will be completely useless when the so involved partner(s) do not or cannot confide in themselves.

A relationship can never stand the test of time when the act of understanding is never seen in the partner(s). Note that a relationship can be created, maintained and/or destroyed by the presence or absence of the act of understanding. The way of showing understanding in a relationship is an important issue to take note of, as it varies in disguise. But showing understanding with friendship is an applauding form of winning a depressed and/or confused heart for it is capable of fetching you a million dollar favor, uniting your happiness and activating the platform for progress in your relationship and family.

The concern for showing understanding is another form of reuniting a lost relationship as it possesses the mother force love. And in this case the lost trust in the lost relationship has to be reactivated and be 100% assured but will cost you a little humiliation depending on the length of breakup. The power of understanding hides so many secrets and can only be exposed to you if you make yourself available in showing understanding.

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Tuesday, May 15, 2012

THINGS YOU NEED TO OBSERVE BEFORE GOING INTO OR BUILDING ANY HAPPY RELATIONSHIP.


A relationship is normally viewed as a connection between two individuals, such as a romantic or intimate relationship, or a parent–child relationship. Individuals can also have relationships with groups of people, such as the relation between a pastor and his congregation, an uncle and a family, or a mayor and a town. In every relationship, one factor among others which is not hidden and can never be hidden is the practice of love.
Acquire knowledge;The knowledge of what you are going into and what you would encounter is a must have whenever it comes to relationships. A healthy relationship is often seen healthy when those involved in it are happy in it. Diving into a relationship for which you have no good knowledge of is as drastic as that which is not yet known.
Discover your purpose for the relationship; The knowledge of what a particular relationship is about, is a good stepping board for you to mark out what your purpose is and what you can achieve from such a relationship. One of the worse things that can happen to you is to involve yourself into a relationship when you don't have a purpose of involving yourself.
Cultivate good character;Maintenance of a healthy relationship is the sole job of all those involved in it and it rightly begins with you. The act of good attitude is a beautiful thing that keep a sailing boat going devoid of its unforeseen troubles.
Learn to show understanding;Understanding is a beautiful thing which nature richly placed in all living things in disguise, it only take a little concern for help to uncover your power to understand. Understanding is a driving force for the confused mind at a moment, it helps to keep a relationship strong when used as a potential part. Showing understanding involves knowing the troubles of the other person as well as given the required support.
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